Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Hello again dear readers...or reader since this blog is fairly new and I don't think has many followers...yet. I wanted to discuss in this post what I hope are helpful tips in having a successful and fulfilling relationship with middle eastern guys in specific. But these tips can apply to everyone. First of all always be attentive to your man. Theres nothing a guy hates more then being ignored. Trust me these guys need a lot of attention. DO NOT IGNORE THERE TEXT MESSAGES! oh my they will automatically assume your up to no good ;) which will lead to a fight trust me on this one.

Secondly there a tad bit on the possessive side but thats kinda inbred since birth so good luck changing that. Along with that comes jealously and a little bit is healthy it shows you care but too much kills the relationship. If your guys is overly jealous and possessive yikes try sitting him down and talking about it before you bail.

Don't get offended if your guy doesn't invite you to his house or to meet his parents early on in the relationship in most middle eastern cultures you don't bring girls home unless you want to marry them. But also be cautious if hes avoiding the subject all together he could just be playing with you.

Understand that if the two of you want to get married and your both diffrent faiths these guys are expected to marry a Muslim girl, but converting just to be with someone won't bring you happiness.

His parents expect you to be a virgin and they will want proof on the wedding night if you've had other sexual partners be upfront about it with him cuz if he find out on the wedding night his family will consider your marriage null and void. Especially if your American unfortunately theres a lot of negative stereotypes about how loose we are.

Just beware they tend to be players most of them grew up in conservative countries and when they get to go clubbing, dating, parting, etc they kinda go buck wild for a while but most calm down.

On to more positive stuff! I didn't make this blog to hate on middle eastern guys. Once their in love thats it for them they stay in love at least most Afghani guys do. Now these are all my personal opinions gained by experience and research ;D

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